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How to Relax and Stay Present During Sex
I (F/22) cannot relax during sex. : relationships
Have you ever been having sex with someone and found your mind wandering? Being distracted from sex makes you disconnected from your body. The end result is often frustration, disappointing sex, and a hard time reaching orgasm. Elena Harder is the founder of JoyGasm , a mindfulness program that focuses on helping people learn how to trigger the orgasmic pathways in their brains , even without any sexual stimulation.
I am a year-old single, healthy and adventurous heterosexual woman. At 16 I was raped and three years ago I went into therapy to deal with the way that act still dominated my emotional life. As a result of the therapy, I am much more content, but still cannot "let go" sexually. I enjoy sex very much but cannot relax enough to allow a sexual partner to give me an orgasm. I have to do it myself.
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