Don't sabotage a satisfying night with your partner by making one of these all-too-common bedroom blunders. Learn which behaviors to avoid so you can heat up the sheets and feel ultimate pleasure. It's hard to share your body when you have no time for yourself," says Laurie Watson , a certified sex therapist in Raleigh, NC, and the author of Wanting Sex Again. So be a little selfish. Carve out "me time" every day, whether that means painting your toenails, going to the gym or reading a book.
Common sex mistakes people make, according to men and women
The 10 Biggest Mistakes Women Make During Sex
The date that, rather than ending with a kiss on the cheek and a box of tissues, results in an invitation to her place for a nightcap or an acceptance of yours. When it comes to verbal seduction, less is more. Right now is the time to be the strong and silent type. When a woman has just performed a—ahem—service for you, refusal of any forthcoming affection can be insulting. So if you see a kiss headed your way, accept it. Contorting your face in disgust will only make a woman feel cheap.
20 Sex Mistakes You're Probably Making
H ave you ever found yourself wanting something more from your sex life? And one of those things that can be difficult to create. Especially when some of our most common habits, beliefs, and misconceptions about sex are getting in the way. Most people think of sex as the penetration part — and that everything else is a sideshow to the main event. Even including things like erotic dance, sexting, dirty talk, and sensual kissing can have huge benefits for your sex life.
Our general lack of Real Talk when it comes to sex might make you think most people know what they're doing when it comes to shagging. In reality, this couldn't be further from the truth. Aren't we all just fumbling in the metaphorical but sometimes literal dark wondering if we're touching the right bit, in the right way? Trust me. But no, that is not the world we live in.